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Originally Posted by shezbut
Sounds like she isn't being real emotionally supportive, IT. Is she acting this way with others as well, or, just you?
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It's just me.
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I will advise you not to bother arguing, or trying to reason, with your mom. It isn't working, and is only leading to more intense moments. Just nip it in the bud at all possible times. Do whatever she's asking you to do and then move on.
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I won't do that, I don't like to be ordered around and I don't want to give in to her bullying.
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If your mom continues to call you names and follows you around ~ is there someone else that lives there that you can talk with? There could be a potentially serious problem that really needs to be worked out before tempers fly out of control.
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I have a therapist and also I am going to be in rehab soon, so I won't be living here for much longer.
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There are many possible scenarios running through my head...Please write down the circumstances completely and let us know.
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Too many different circumstances.
Today she told me to wake up and called me a moron. Then she went out and I took some messages for her, then she got back and told me I hadn't mopped the floors well and she called me some other names. She also told me to shave and that she bought this small paper and there were jobs in there and I should call some numbers to look for a job. Then I got mad because of the name-calling and nagging and I set fire to some of the clothes that she bought me.