I think my last ED letter was entitled things I never ever, ever, want to talk about ever! and will completely ignore any conversation addressing said letter Yes, my letters generally have very childish titles but in them is what's important. My letters usually contain things I feel T should know but can't voice. Could you do a day in my life with ED letter/story and give it to him? That way before any conversation with him he's seen it through your 'eyes'. I know how hard it is.