There are technicalities and flukes in every situation. We are all human beings. Imperfect.

I personally believe that most of us in the world are decent people. However, we all make mistakes sometimes. Sometimes, we fall for people with bad intentions & mistakenly follow their cause in life. Most of us "snap out of it" and realize that we were taken advantage of. But, these are still minor occurrences in life. Most of us (I have to believe) strive to simply be good people and do our best...because that is what we want from life.

Going through life believing that even good things done (by others) is only done for selfish, unkind reasons sounds like an awfully hard life to live. What would be that person's motivation to be a decent human being themselves?? That thought pattern sounds as though it's justifying negative behavior for the person thinking along those lines.

Just my personal opinion....