i'm glad your going to thearpy.. Can I ask why it is so imporantant to an ex-husband what you do with your life?? Do you have custody of kids you two share???(oops see that now)) but still unless it states in the divorce decree that he has to be a part of your medical treatment he should not have a say in when or if you go to a Therapist..

If I missed soemthing anyone pleae tell me, When I got a divorce from my ex. I said goodbye and never spoke to him for almost a year.. Trust me it is none of his beeswax what you do, or who you do it with.
IF you need support from a T, then go for it, dont tell him it is not his business as long as you fucnition in the best way possible if you have kids, then what is it to him????

I am trying to be as supportive as I can, but when an ex rules someone's life it is bad.. My ex tried and well I told him a thing or two very rudely...

Give me a shot if you want to chat more ok. I am online when I am visble