And for those who would say, forgive her, meet her on her terms, find something you can love about her: I have tried. She rejects my advances. She doesn't want me to like her or love her for the reasons I do. I have told her I appreciate her. She just doesn't want to hear it. She thinks I'm laughing at her. Which is just so weird and insulting, I don't know what to do with it. Plus she's lied to me so many times, it really is a case of Charlie Brown and Lucy holding the football.