This is not because of personal betrayal. Rather that I meet sooo many people and have in depth private conversations and think after months of this that this person may be good. Stick by what they say. Then I hear what they've, will do, advocate, etc. that previously would be against their character. Take a woman who meets a coworkers wife and little kids and sees that they are happy together, but still tries to seduce him. Why do so many people turn a blind eye to things like this and why the lack of care for others? I hear so many stories like this all the time.