I'm sorry you feel that way... I agree with you in regards to some people wanting to sit on their pain and don't do much about it, however, I can tell you this web site and the loving people that have talked to me ( including you ) has helped me become stronger and every day more ready for what I'm about to do with my life.
I could not be where I am without the support of a bunch of people here ... I have still a little way to go, but I can tell you .... I am much stronger now and more ready every day because of people like you.

gab