Following on from another idea on here about buddies, How about 'motivation buddies'. People that know me on here probably know about the state of my house and of the kitchen, which i usually refer to as 'the war zone'. Well since yesterday it now looks like a crime scene off of CSI. I managed to knock over a new, big, full bottle of Worcester Sauce and send it crashing to the floor. OMG!!! Thats it i've had enough. That's given me the motivation to start clearing it up. But thinking about it, isnt it always more interesting to help clear up other peoples mess than your own plus you get the satisfaction of helping somebody who just needs someone to give em a push into starting the big clear up. My idea is that if 2 people live within a reasonable distance of one another ( i live in the UK in Essex so could do Essex and London) that for 1 or 2 days- person 1 helps get person 2 get started clearing up and then, maybe a few weeks later person 2 helps person 1 do the same thing). Giving someone a nudge and motivation to get started may be all that is needed. Not sure if it would work but hey lets throw it around and see what happens.