I would like to emphasize that I have no proof of what actually happened at the background and I will not judge this person for what I don't know.

I'm saying that having learnt this secret was a bombshell, a shock and I have no choice but believe that this fact played a major part in his decision to dump me.

I believe that has he not been married we would still be together and I know for a fact that had I known he was married, I would never have gone anywhere near him.