Update:

It has all been worth it. Spreading my self too thin so to speak was well worth it. I -yes-felt like on a merry-go-round (Being a Dater) and that was the only bad thing maybe but well worth the tired trouble and recommend to you that is better than uninformed choices.

I am sure that unimformed choices that females make are demise for them. Why can't women, especially, quit the crap. They are not *****s. They can be choosey and have a right to make informed choices in dating and "looking"

Traditions of man will hurt women and very much have literally. I think you should do what I did because it works. Date 4 or 5 guys at once. Just use scheduling, bounderies, saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Be assertive. You can do it.

Oh by the way Merry Christmas. Namaste

Me and my chosen love are so so so happy. Wow-Wee.

Oh, Seeker1950, could you tone it down. Who specifically said they slept with all 5 men? Clarity needs to be forthright. Yes the potential of sinning is great when I expose myself to so many "males' in confined spaces, but I didn't have to sleep with the males. Can you elaberate on what you meant and do you have a painful personal experience that can help us because it can help with this topic. I definately definately respect that idea of too much sexual abuse happening in dating time. I am so so against taking advantage of someones body from either side wheather it is the woman using him or vice versa and I totally totally agree on the very very danger if you date more than one person (like 5 men at once, which I definately did in the past 4 months, which was as I said before a merry-go-round. It built my self esteem. God it built my self esteem. I finally kicked Larry to the curb, James to the curb, John to the curb, and Brett to the curb. The man I "Chose" is so respecting to me because he is sure I chose him . I can now see Larry, James, and John and Brett as just friends and my life is so so so so so so goooood. Wow-Wee. Try it, it is worth it. You can do it. Namaste. Thankyou seeker1950 for pointing out about sexual intercouse. I am clairfying that it is dangerous to do all 5 and since I didn't I can't say it was good bad or ugly and don't have S.T.D.S