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Sep 06, 2013, 06:27 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: Rather not say
Posts: 284
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Originally Posted by Favorite Jeans
I swear all the time in therapy and in most other contexts and I have to tell you I would have been freaked right out if my T had said that. In my mind there's a difference between using f*cking as a generic adjective or adverb (eg "so f*cking tired!") and using it in its literal sense to talk about having sex--the latter sounding either excessively crass, violent or intimate. I think he at least owes you an acknowledgement of your discomfort rather than an implicit unapologetic "I'm cool with this."
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Yes, there is a huge difference between the two. He was talking about the latter. He used it meaning the act of sex. I have been married 14 years and we never say that word. Or make love. We may say" I want some". Or "Gimmie"/Or no words just start. But my heavens why use such an ugly word. I curse often in sessions. Never those words. I look at people a certain way if they use those when discussing sex. So vulgar. Even if we are discussing sexual health within my marriage I never say those words. I don't say the p word. I called it my pocketbook.
I am in utter shock. Of all people. The self proclaimed gentleman cussing like that. Potty mouth!!
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