I tend to be pretty open about it, but if it doesn't concern that person I won't tell them. Besides my psych team only my best friend who knows and some family members. I heard its more stigmatizing from mental health workers many people simply don't care. My T told me many of her colleagues say that we can't be healed from BPD and we are not repairable. She told them that's some b/s because she is living proof.