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Originally Posted by Nicks_Nose
See, for myself, I have tried to find a more meaningful relationship beyond the physical and it has always seemed to me that a man only wants the physical. I have sought out relationships beyond the sexual acts so the lack of intimacy does not turn me off. It actually entices me. I seek out stimulation of the mind, the senses, the joy of mental and emotional bonding before the physical. So the physical is lower on my agenda.
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I think it is all down to personal preference.
I by no means want to give the impression that a profound mental and emotional connection is not important. Of course it is. I just don't see sex as something separate or lower. I think that great sex is actually pretty much the most amazing expression of all that dynamic between two people. Something that is so much more than the sum of the parts.
I also disagree with the notion that "a man only wants the physical". I think many of them want much, much more.
Edited to add: Lack of intimacy is actually a major turn off for me. Like I said, it really is about personal preferences.