sweetie this is what this fourm is for, dragging things out so you can chat about them..

I am going to be blunt, it sounds like he has someone watching you, and you need to find out who and get that portoection order someon above me said to do.

This is silly..He is the one who messed the marraige up and he needs to get over it. You need to find a way to be safe adn he is making it very hard on you.

Can I ask you a question, can you move futher away from him, but still where he can have is parental rights to the kids???

I know you could tell me many things, trust me I can only imange what he has not done to you, it might be eaiser to think of that ..

I do hope you are safe this holiday coming up, this monster we all battle can kill us if we do not watch ourselves..

Please take care..

in freindship,
Trish