Thanks for responding Akuma, at least somebody did. Er not really sure what you're saying. If 2 people want to swap addresses and arrange to help each other i'm not sure what that would have to do with PC. Im assuming by 'safety stuff' you mean PC wouldn't give out peoples addresses. I hope they wouldn't but they wouldn't need to would they. I'm not exactly a hoarder ( at least i would say not) hoarders have quite specific mental problems and i would say that because of low motivation ive let the house get into a bit of a state but thanks anyway for your suggestions. I jusy believe in a practical approach to things if possible. I'm sure therapy does work for some people but could also prolong and possibly make things worse. I'm no expert, it's just a hunch. What are you afraid of by somebody identifying where you are?