I think if you felt like you were going to "black out" because of the f word, it sounds as if there is more going on that meets the eye....Unfortunately, a lot of people use it (I don't) and i work on a college campus, where I hear it all day long......if you were here, you would be unconscious always. Occassionally my t will swear and I just roll my eyes at him, because he knows I hate crude. I think it is unprofessional.....I mean if you went to an M.D. or an attorney, you wouldn't expect to hear swearing. Be straight with him and tell you how/why you didn't like that word. If he does it again, you will know he is trying to shock you (childish). Maybe write those words a hundred times and the shock value will wear off a little.
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Originally Posted by WhiteClouds
Hi PC Fam,
I saw my T on Tuesday. The session was about my upcoming TVH next Wednesday. Well during our discussion, I explained to him sexuality is all primal and instinctive in the end. No matter how Freudian you get about it or philosophical.Blah, Blah, blah.
(I don't know if it is because I'm Southern or some sort of prude. However some words I cringe whenever anyone say them. )
He then replies, "well it's nothing like a good ****ing. Sometimes you just want a good ****. Love making, whatever you may call it.
Lord help me I was about to BLACK OUT He said the F word!!!!!!! repeatedly!
Why in the world would he say that word of ALL words. I guess he saw how mortified I was then put his hands on his head reclined, crossed his legs and closed his eyes. Like he was cool saying it.
I don't know why. But I can not handle hearing or reading the f, p, d, s, a, t, words. I can't. I become mortified. Like panicky. It seems so vile, disgusting, cheap, nasty, adult film like in context. And no I do not believe in that either.
Has your T ever used inappropriate words before during sessions?
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