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Originally Posted by IndieVisible
Yea I get that I just don't agree with it. I see no reason for them having to know any of my personal issues. No one. Family or close friends. I see people do it a lot, even to me and I'm like thinking, why are they telling me their personal business? If you have a very close friend you can trust I can see it, may be. I realize we are all different and some people simply feel better getting things off their chest. Or talking about it with other people. I get that. I would still advise against it. It really can come back and bite you! I've seen it happen many times. Couples getting divorced bring out all their little secrets to use against the other. At work throwing others under the bus to get ahead. People gossiping about some one when they are not around. etc, etc.
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yeah what level of privacy different people need varies I'll agree. What I'm saying is for the most part to really know someone well, you have to kind of share more than you would with the general public or even acquaintences. I totally understand your view and am relatively private myself. TBH as for my family (extended family of sisters and brother etc) I wish they didn't know as much as they do about me!