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Old Sep 06, 2013, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by MotownJohnny View Post
Getting to that point may not be a choice for many people, due to whatever cause, whatever condition they may have. However, I believe staying there is a choice for a lot, not all, people. You just have to have the will and the tools to do it. Personally, I had what I consider to be an extremely life-altering experience last year, and it really changed my perspective. A swift kick in the rear to make me appreciative of what I have been given and what the world has to offer.
When someone has been kicked about, abused and traumatized for years and as a result they trust absolutely no one, I doubt that it is the will they are lacking and I very much doubt that it is another kick they need. I would be extremely careful recommending "flooding" techniques to a traumatized, shocked person.

That said, I can accept that for some of the more fortunate ones it might be a matter of choice.

I am curious what tools you might be referring to.