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Originally Posted by WhiteClouds
Yes, there is a huge difference between the two. He was talking about the latter. He used it meaning the act of sex. I have been married 14 years and we never say that word. Or make love. We may say" I want some". Or "Gimmie"/Or no words just start. But my heavens why use such an ugly word. I curse often in sessions. Never those words. I look at people a certain way if they use those when discussing sex. So vulgar. Even if we are discussing sexual health within my marriage I never say those words. I don't say the p word. I called it my pocketbook.
I am in utter shock. Of all people. The self proclaimed gentleman cussing like that. Potty mouth!!
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It was tasteless and inappropriate in the context you describe. I agree that there are cases where it not be uncomfortable and awkward, this is not one of them. He lapsed in judgement and disrespected your sensitivity towards the issue. That seems like a red flag. A bright Ferrari-red banner.