If she couldn't "deal" with your Dx, that's a testament to her character, not yours. I've been married to my husband going on 7 years and was just diagnosed this week. I've had untreated bipolar disorder for years and he's put up with it all this time. I think that's enough proof that there are people out there that are more than happy to be our cheerleaders. I just think she wasn't "the one". Are you undergoing therapy or trying out any medications that might make you feel better?