phoenix im soo sorry about your abusive husband, im glad that you are doing ok now. Me and my friend have sorta been romantic in the past , just friends now, in our thirties, but mostly i have seen the depression side of it. This is the first i have seen with the sexual stuff so much. So thats why i questioned mania, i dont think he has a porn addiction, always has had a healthy sex drive and stuff, i think that hes depressed now so thats where the sex urges come, maybe lonliness too ? I dont know how to help and i wish i could. I also think he isolates alot, when things are tough emotionally for him.