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Whoa, Whoa, Whoa. Throwing flag blowing whistle. Wait a minute. Some of you have went all the way to the left & right with this.
First let me say I am 35 years old and very comfortable with sex, sexuality. I am a proud mother of 3. Ages 16,14, and 10 years of age. I digress. With that said my children are taught proper terminology for every part of their body. However, as a LADY I do not normally discuss my sex life with anyone other than my husband As that is decent & proper in my opinion Based on my standard. Due to a medical procedure I unfortunately needed to express my concerns about the physical, sexual, and emotional impact of this procedure.
Please keep in mind I have faced & dealt with Transference, erotic transference towards this same T. I thought it best to discuss the issue in a very clinical sense. I thought it would be wise to discuss the issue within professional boundaries. Understand it was no easy task discussing this with the person I believed in December - February I was madly in love with and frequently fantasied about.
I've worked tremendously hard to keep parameters and MYSELF in check for the best outcomes.
Lord, the way some of you are talking is like I am afraid of sex or something. Unfortunately, some of you fail to see.. Some things are simply in poor taste to say. Especially if the client is not one to go around saying words like that. Why? I'm a lady. We've actually laughed about me calling my VAGINA a pocketbook. He cracked up about it and said and I quote" always the lady. In all things aren't you?" He then shared an experience he had in the South and UNDERSTOOD and knew someone who used the same term.
Not all men run around calling their penis a penis. Some of them literally give it a name or associate it with another part of their personality. You will some times hear them speak about themselves in the 3rd person using a nick name of sorts when discussing sex, their penis.
I do apologize for the delayed response. Today was my pre-op appointment and it literally lasted ALL day.
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