How sad. Poor you, to 'witness' day in, day out, the invisible bugs. Your Mum needs help. Insist on a Doctor's home visit, maybe unannounced to your Mum. MAKE him see, how unwell she is. Talking to her at this stage is pointless. Clear the house of the cleaning and chemical stuff. Tell her, no bugs, no cleaning. You can't drag her to a Doctor, but you can insist, he visits her, at home. That should relieve some pressure off you. Don't walk away, she's your Mum. You only get one. Don't support her either directly, in the fantasy she's engulfed in. Just support her emotionally. Be cruel to be kind. Tough love. She needs help. Make sure, insist on it. To the home, so the Dr. See's it as it is, non bugs and all. That , in turn helps you. Don't walk away, but don't try to do it alone. Call that Doctor, INSIST, home visit. She needs help. You , need help, to help your Mum.
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