I asked myself that same question when I first met her. Then her therapist asked me that. So, do I want a bipolar wife? I don't think about it that way. We all have problems, some much worse than others and we can't always change who we are. I chose her because of her positive qualities. Yes there were times when understanding her was difficult. I am an optimist and she believes in love. Can I handle what I am asking for? There's not much I can't handle.

Looking back I see that she needs someone who understands her and responds to her needs. I think I do, but can she help me when I need her? This I am not sure of, but armed with what I am learning now I believe we can make it. So I will keep trying. I'm just not sure if I should because she might need this time away to heal. I just want to let her know I am still here.