I've heard different opinions.
Some of my friends (and my therapist) think I was abused but to me it just sounds weird, not abusive. To someone who has a very restricted view of what qualifies as abuse, is this abusive?

I put a trigger warning because i accidentally triggered someone last night:
There is a man and a girl (aged 4-7)in a den alone
he is drunk
she knows
he says come
she says no
he makes fun of her
scolds her
insists
she comes
he says, "lay on my butt"
she doesn't
he mocks her
she does
-then some other things that i'm not sure really happened-
then he spoons her
-then some other things that i'm not really sure happened-
then she goes away feeling strange, but not afraid

But does this sound "abusive" or is it just strange and awkward?

thanks