I feel sad about your relationship breakup, i remember the first boyfriend i ever had and the way he broke up with me was by going out with some rich girl i could never compete with and i found out through my friends, not him, i was devestated, well after that i just went on dates with men, by never got too serious again until i was 28. i don't even think about him anymore, but it took awhile to get back to where i was emotionally before that. things change in the blink of an eye sometimes and we have to keep our guard up sometimes too. Next time, i'm sure you'll have other times almost, if you're like me, and just learn to brush the pain off your shoulders.