Thanks Direction. I recently bought 5 books on BPD and
am learning a great deal. It's helpful. But I also realize that
I also just need to let myself grieve. I go to Houston tomorrow and look forward to spending time alone at
Susan's grave. I wasn't able to spend time alone with her
at the funeral and it has bothered me. As a family we haven't had a happy Christmas or family gathering for
over 25 years due to Susan's anger and sabotage of the events. Now, we will have a chance to make good new memories while my parents are still alive. The healing for
Susan's daughter will take time but already she's making
progress so we are all hopeful.
Thanks again,
Annie