I think you misunderstood my question. I wasn't asking about age because of any concern about his ability to perform, but because I wanted to know if you were under the age of consent.

My personal feeling is that this isn't about whether he loves you or not. It seems like he saw an opportunity and took advantage of it. I don't know what made you initiate that but he is a married man and he is your relative so I am concerned about your personal self-esteem and self-regard.

This isn't appropriate, and I think you know that.