Hi

Try not to lash out but be assertive - 'some' ppl with go as far as you let them! I used to be a bit of a door mat and never spoke up for myself and as a result I have become aggressive towards those I deem to be 'walking over me'. Trying to be more assertive and less aggressive but it would have been easier if I had just set those boundaries and been assertive to begin with...

Good luck