I feel really selfish to say it but I feel like I might have unknowingly bitten of f more than I can chew.

She is still really close to her family, and that dynamic is messing me up.

if some one is abused by a strange uncle or a neighbor or even a father I can draft a clear enemy in my mind but what am I supposed to do when it was kids doing things to kids.

I know the oldest sister is messed up and I have never liked her. no one really does... But I feel like the rest of them are more or less just as innocent as each other.

It's obvious that no one is blaming each other and that it is just some kind of dark disgusting secret that they all want to forget.

It definitely affects my wife and she wants to get help.....

I just think it can't be healthy to continue engaging with family members that you've had ongoing sexual relationships with. Especially if it happened later into the teen years (or not)

I just want to erase her entire family and take her to a therapist to start a new life but things are not that easy. She would probably leave me before she ever got away from them completely. They are all she knows.

I deleted her oldest sister from my Facebook because I couldn't see her messed up sexually charged posts and revealing pictures anymore.

I want to delete her brothers and other sisters but it would start a huge feud.

I want out.

I just want to run away from her.

I just want to forget I ever married her.

I wish this wasn't my responsibility.