Could also, turn around and sue the other woman, while you're at if, if this is a decision, for alienation of affection. It's all on their cell phone records. Then, her husband would have a wonderful way, of 'finding out' the truth about his wife!
Of course, sometimes, we feel that keeping a mommy and daddy under the same roof is the 'best' solution, but um, one of these days, one of those kids, is going to find out the truth. How we, as parents, proceed from here, is what they will also know, in the future.
Not just once, not just twice, but three times and they are still communicating.
He doesn't sound like he's making amends, he sounds like he has you, right where he wants you to be....
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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
If you are considering divorce and there would be money involved, as might very well be case after 10 years, then you need to seek legal advice, in private and without the husband's knowledge, paying in cash, if need be. That is the general recommendation that you will read everywhere - I have never been in your shoes, but everywhere it is written that you first seek legal advice and become aware of your options and strategies, and then start actions/conversations about the divorce. There are numerous reasons to this.
Just make sure that your communications with the potential lawyers would remain private between you and them.
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