i grew up in a family where my parents fought endlessly. they would even say, "i'd divorce you if it wasn't for Pat".......i would wake up to that in the mornings before i went to school. i always wanted to move out and live with my sister but had to stay there. i graduated from highschool at 16 and LEFT.....and i vowed, when i married, to never fight in front of my children (in the way they did) and i didn't.....

it's not wrong to wish they would divorce and i certainly understand your wishing you could hear a normal conversation on a daily basis.

have you ever talked to each parent privately and related how you feel? and are you able to move out? i don't remember how old you are....i know that with your sister leaving, you are feeling more isolated. try to find something to do to fill your time during the worst of the transition....volunteer, read at the library..anything to get your mind off things......good luck, love, pat