I guess facing your fears is the only way (besides the Klonopin) to deal with travel. I don't really know much about agoraphobia, so you could talk to a therapist (if you're comfortable going there. You can take a friend if you want, or something from your house that you are attached to). I'm going away to college next year, and I have severe seperation anxiety. I got into the college of my dreams, my best friend is going with me, and everything is great besides the fact that I live in New York and my college is in California. I can't turn down my acceptance, and I feel like the only way to go is to pack my entire life and everything that reminds me of my loved ones when I leave. So, I guess you should pack as much as you can from things inside your bedroom. A blanket, a pillow, anything you see/use regularly should go with you when you live with your boyfriend. Familiar furniture can be shipped so when you get there, you can have it with you. Good luck!