HT, isn't this the same women you were posting about way back when you were with other women and were telling her about it, when you were with her?

If so, this woman certainly seemed to have some serious issues then by her lack of response and it would seem she and you have been in some state of limbo forever. She doesn't seem to move in any direction, not sure if you really are either aside from breaking it off sort of. If it is the same woman, her sudden reaction to other women is interesting.

But perhaps you could find a different roomate as could she because it seems like the lack of moving on from limbo between you both isn't happening... then or now. Seems not to much has changed depite a breakup or sorts. Sounds like you maybe have not really moved on either. Moving out might be the only way to actually move on in this situation perhaps without a tight friendship if moving on is the goal.