I am not offended, but I thought and feel I have given positive support to many here, just ask some people here.
Sure I have issues, some worst than others but I have worked on them with the help of professionals and meds and have made a big step forward, I am NOT in a pity party.
In life no matter where you go, no matter what mental health site you are going to find people that can't or maybe refuse to get better, it isn't just this site where this type of stuff happens, if one is depressed and negative that is all one will see, being blinded by their own doing or their depression and will not see the brighter side here and in life, perhaps your depression is not allowing you to see there is a lot of positive replies at the forums and positive results.
If a person is just drawn to the bad in life that is all they will see. I see this with my mom, she seems to enjoy making others miserable due to her own depression and negativity towards life and others, she finds only bad in everything, she knocks someone down who is finding pleasure in living. . . I am elated she is finally leaving my home and getting her own place where she can sleep all day (she does 16 - 20 hours per day) and take her miserable, depressing, nasty attitude with her, this sort of baggage I do not need, for I have worked hard at getting better, and I want to live my life and enjoy every day possible.
I wish luck to you with whatever website you find, and I am sorry you seem to be unhappy with this one.

Take care and enjoy life to the fullest, for it is short.

DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON