It sounds like social anxiety, I have had opportunities for new friendships but sort of "chickened out", I explained this to my pdoc and he said it sounds like it and if I fear others will think I am being snobby (which I fear) he suggested to tell a little white lie telling them" I'd love to but I have a previous engament, but would like to take a rain check".
He didn't give me the Klonopin for that but for panic attacks I have started to occasionally get since last spring, never knew what they where like, never had one, but after I did and coincidencly had an appt with him, I told him what happened and how horrible the sensation was, so he prescribed it "as needed".
If you wish not to use the meds. can you try talking to a therapist for help with this?
I hope you lots of luck with this, and welcome you to the forums.

Please take care now,

DE

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SOLON