hi edda, are you asking about what can and can't be shared on here? (I'm wondering because you mentioned "a post") ... or something else? if you mean regarding Psych Central there is a very long discussion that took place some time ago that is helpful in understanding and you can
find here (it is a fairly long and triggery read so please be careful if you try reading)
... if you mean something else and/or you do need stitches at the moment, I hope you are getting them