I am kinda the same way. I really don't like sex. I don't have a high sex drive. But I was abused as a child and raped many times as a teenager. But still, I used to have sex and like it. I have never had the great mind blowing sex every one talks about. I am at a point right now where I just don't want to have sex. I have been married 19 years. We have had periods where we have frequent sex, and periods where we have almost non existent sex. I have to say non existent suits me fine. I to am a romantic. I love to read romance novels and steamy things, but I just don't like for the novels to become a reality in the bed room. I am just not that type of romantic in real life. So does that make us weird. IDK. I wouldn't worry to much. I wish I could have found a male who was not so into sex. IT would have been a dream come true. I have a male friend or two who just are not into sex. Life has treated them poorly and they have learned that they are better off with out it.(They either are divorced or had a relationship where they were taken advantage of by a female, not sexually speaking)