It may be hard to find but there are free legal aide organizations in most areas; please talk to an attorney/lawyer about this. As mentioned above, it may be a scare tactic or it may be legit, but you need to know what your legitimate options are given the circumstances and only a legal representative can do that. Please seek counsel asap to know what your options are and how to handle the situation in your best interest. It is worth doing and can make a world of difference. I know how hard this all can be dealing with it and meanwhile, will be hoping it all works out and for the best. Hang in there! (((((Rose)))))