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Originally Posted by HealingNSuffering
I'm sorry that you were so paranoid, I know its tough being triggered like this. I judge people's faces to as being angry or hostile a lot of times even when the people I confront about it deny that that is the case. I can also sense negative energy coming off of people even when they don't have any facial expressions and are not yelling.
I think that underage sex can be excusable in some cases (the dude was 18 and his girlfriend 17 or how in USA 16 year old are not aloud to date 15 year old) seems like the trend seems to be women like older men anyways. Even though women live longer in general, seems like they enjoy the experience of being a widow or something. 
But old men getting with young girls is obviously sexual molestation, even though in society it tends to be the norm. You see all sorts of 20 somethings going after 50+ year old men, as long as they got money. I say to hell with these friends to, I'd rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies   |
I must admit, I love an older man myself but not too old lol My hubby is 12 yrs older than me and have been with him since I was 18. Now 32
But even before him, my bf's were older than me. Guess I am looking for a daddy figure....or is that too obvious?
Yes I agree there are some grey areas ...18 going with 16 etc. But I was just 13 cracking on 14 and abuser was 24. He was evil to me but that's a long story....
I used to think I was a good judge of character until my hubby pointed out I read ppl, for the majority of the time, all wrong! We will sometimes come away from somewhere and I will say, why was so and so giving me evils and disapproving looks all night and he wouldn't have a clue and tell me they were actually quite friendly. I used to go mad at him thinking he was on their side but I understand now, he is of course on my side, so trust his opinion. I have confronted ppl about it before to their utter surprise which has left me wondering if they are covering it up sometimes....but no, I am sure it's just me! It can't be everyone else and not me ...right? Right??? lol Jeez I have become so confrontational the past while.....it's like something snapped and instead of letting it rip me up inside I started telling ppl what, I thought, they were doing to me. I have nearly lost good friends over this and fallen out with friends of friends because of it. It's a wonder I have any friends at all. But saying that I do still hold part of me back o maybe that's what's holding my friendships together. I am a great performer when I have to be.....