Hey allme

Idk what you "should" be doing, but I choose to take ownership for my actions, even the bpd ones. I don't do it because I'm some type of mental goody2 shoes, but because it makes me feel empowered.

Logic dictates that if I assume responsibility, I have the ability, and the power to change my behaviour in future.

The opposite action of "whoops it wasn't meee" only leads to repeating said mistake or behaviour in the not too distant future. All the while driving everyone away because I will obviously never change my behaviour. Afterall its not my fault, I have no control or responsibility, its bpd's fault and bpd is here to stay...

So that's just what I do and why.