Not a good idea to blame your disorder for anything. Granted it complicates things and sometimes is the cause of us reeling into a tailspin, but it still remains our responsibility to pull out of that spin and regain control. It's when we just say "oh well it's my bpd" when we let that spin continue on a path of destruction.

It's like a blind man doing nothing to accommodate himself for his disability. Since he's blind he has the tools to do things in such a way that he can still get on in life. Its like that blind man sitting at home and starving to death because he can't find the kitchen.