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Old Sep 10, 2013, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted by secretwhisper View Post
I am sick of the constant changes! Sick of not knowing what each day will bring. Sick of the glimmers of hope that get snatched away so quickly. I'm just sick of it all

Just because we feel that way does not necessarily mean someone has BPD....right? I want my T to be wrong.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.