Hi All.

I'm feeling weird about something.. Last week I was lying down on the coach and I was talking to T about how my house never feels clean, no matter how hard I work to clean it.

Well, as I was leaving, T said she had a spare vaccum that I could have and gave it to me as I left. I said no to her at first, but she joked I'd rejected it and that it was 'no skin off her nose'.

At first I was really happy because my last vaccum stopped working and dustpan and brushing it before I could get another vaccum was bringing out my allergies and really hard work - however my husband was angry and annoyed that she had crossed boundaries.

I feel like I should get her something to say thank you - it was still brand new. I also have started feeling something else, sort of upset that I can understand what my husband is saying and sometimes therapy doesn't feel like therapy.

I've re-arranged my session for another time, as I need to think through some things.

I just feel really mixed.. I've used the vacuum to, so I can't return it. I feel special, but also sad that a boundary has been crossed but I also feel like I owe her.

Has this ever happened to you? x