My husband is a serial cheater. He cheated on his first marriage for 17 years and now in ours. Both times with random women and both times with the same mistress. He not only had a sexual affair but a LOVE affair. Asked the mistress to marry him etc. Now that he is caught he has begged me not to break up the family. FOR ME not to break up the family?
I still believe he is and will cheat going forward.
I dont even know if I want access to his emails and passwords because I dont think I even want to work this out
Financially is the only reason Im still here and he is still in the house
My children are the other reason
Working it out is not realistic not because I dont think he's capable, because he's NOT but because the extent of what I know is DEEP. I dont think I can ever look at him the same.
SO WHAT AM I WAITING FOR?
Im stuck in fear, in worry and my children.

Anyone here stay for all the wrong reasons? kids, Money, stability?

Can we just live undre the same roof and co exist as friends? Is that possible or realistic?

The cheating is impossiple to forget or get passed.