There are support forums on the net for men with a large penis. They give tips on how to have sex and enjoy it. unfortunately I don't know any links or sites so you'll have to do some research. Also, the smaller the woman, the more troubles you'll have. There is a difference as well on if you are just long, or thick or both. I prefer thick and average. some woman prefer long and thin, some like long and thick, some like thin and short. good luck!