I talked about wanting a Magic Bullet - a smoothie maker / juicer - and t said he had an extra one. I think he had offered it to me before, but I couldn't accept it. This time I did. So yes, other people have been through this. It can be kind of a breakthrough - it's a practical thing, but there's a lot of symbolism in accepting something from someone. It involves trust and vulnerability and admitting needs and desires and sharing those with another person and all kinds of icky stuff that I didnt think of til just now!! And honestly could either of our appliances have been more Freudian??