I'd mentioned before that I had a coworker that seemed as though he ws noticing a bit too much about my behavior at the work place, as a quick reminder I'm talkign about the one that made the comment about the times I arrive at work and gave me the warning about being 15 min late and such.. anyway

My feelings have been further confirmed about this person of late. Ok so he helped me to get my license stuff out of the way and on that day I was able to get a permit for the car to drive it temporarily til I got the inspection and then i could get the plate. Well I haven't been able to just yet which is Friday when I'll be able to do allthat. but all this time been driving with the temporary permit.

I passed him this morning as he was walking to the building and I dreaded him noticing that my plate was still absent as you can guess I was worried about him further commenting on my life and behaviors and all. Well on the way to the bathroom he was walking by and paused but then didn not say anything. we just said hi and then he paused before walking on.. I could tell he had something he wanted to say.

Later, like an hour or so he hits me up on the chat in the office. out of the blue 'were you able to manage to get your inspection straightened out?' I was like "no that's friday i'll take care of it" The part that bothers me is it makes me feel further watched by this guy I mean if it were me it would be none of my business unless I was shared this information. he added "yah you don't want to be driving around without a plate for too long." Honestly it makes me feel very paranoid.

he's an older guy approaching 60. On the one hand he's very nice and has helped me but it just feels like he's the type of guy that is possibly controlling and dominating type person if you let him. I'm sure intentions are ok but it's just kind of intrusive. Really I mean I'm in my 40s and I do NOT NEED ANOTHER FATHER!

/done rant