On second thoughts I am a member of the same social group as my T. I joined before he was my T, and it is comforting to know you share a common interest and if you ever run out of things to say you can always talk about it. The only thing is before he was my T he was just an attractive guy but not someone I had an interest in. Now I keep watching his interactions out of the corner of my eye. We both seem to have backed off from this group since he became my T.