Allme, Thanks for your input!

Hopeless Poppy, I am sorry you had a bad experience with this and was discovered. That must've been hard. You are brave for admitting it, thanks for your help.

BipolarArtist, Thank you, you are right, thanks for understanding the temptation. It's cool that you were in the same group as your T before he became your T! How nice! Thank you for sharing!!!

Blessed Rhiannon, Thanks, I've become interested in gardening because of my T, but still to be honest I am tempted to join mostly to read her posts.

Tigergirl, and Lycanthrope, good point, I don't know if I can ask her questions, she usually changes the subject when I ask her stuff. I feel awkward asking her stuff, I feel like a child who asks mommy where babies come from. It's not allowed. But perhaps I'll try again. Thank you!

RTerroni, Wow that's cool that you found out your T are alums! I understand your worry, but your T is probably too busy to read this forum. T knows I've become interested in gardening too, but I don't garden very much while she does it all the time.